Communication Problems Wrecking Your Relationship?
 

"Discover a Simple, Secret System to
Quickly Bring Back The Trust, Honesty, Love
and Understanding To Your Relationship."

The Turning Point is for Couples That Still Care About
Each Other and That Really Want to Bring Back What
They Once Had... But Are Having Relationship Troubles
That Are Threatening To Destroy It All…

All relationships will eventually hit a wall... a relationship roadblock where the problems, misunderstandings and issues are bigger than the love.  When you hit that relationship wall - things look hopeless. And then, the harder you try to fix things, the worse they get.

Sometimes it only takes one date and sometimes it takes getting married before you'll hit the wall. 

But eventually… it happens to every couple... a few lucky people stumble upon the secrets you are about to discover and make it through... but many don't.

I am guessing that if you are reading this web-site, it's very likely you that you've hit that wall.  You're at the point where part you really wants to save the relationship and another part of you is ready to say, "Screw it - it's not supposed to be this hard!"

Okay, let me get this out of the way early on:  to make what I'm about to say worth-while, you are going to have to ask yourself this simple, but tough question...

"Is your relationship really worth saving?

 Is it worth investing your time, emotions, energy, and yes your money? I was once told that if you want to know what’s important to someone – check their calendar and their credit card statements… where do they spend their time and their money.

Since you are still reading… I’m going to assume you said yes my relationship is worth saving and now it’s just a matter of what to do and how to do it.

So let dive in - what really causes all these relationship problems anyway?

Well…  at some point, past unresolved issues from your childhood or your previous relationships will creep up and threaten to end your relationship. 

These issues may show up as...

• Broken agreements, betrayals and other forms of lost trust
  
   
• Dishonesty, silence and defensive communication
  
   
• Conflicts, upsets and arguments that don’t get resolved
  
   
• Upset from dealing with exes, steps and in-laws
  
   
• Overwhelming jealousy
  
   
• No more passion or sex life
  
   
• Relationship conflicts where it
  
   
• Persistent, painful misunderstandings
  
   
• Talking about important issues always ends with someone taking it personally or making it personal
  
   
• The inability to ask for what you want
  
   
• Lots of guilt, blame, shame and manipulation in the relationship
  
   
• Neither partner really know how… or wanting to listen to... and understand their partner

So part of the issue is working hard to identify what your deep, underlying trigger really is.  The Turning Point can help you there.

Humans, no matter how wonderful their childhoods, will get scared when their needs aren't met by their lover. 

They develop strategies to try to get those needs met...

The more important the need – the
more desperate the strategy can become…

Some that may be less than glamorous (like yelling, pouting, arguing, silent treatment, fighting, withdrawing, hitting). 

Ahhhh, even if these do work – both people pay a huge price… resistance, resentment, hurt feelings, lost intimacy and lost trust and more…

There has to be a better way!

That’s where The Turn Point – A Relationship Retreat, comes in.  We coach people in our relationship communication skills through the Magic Relationship Method. 

First we’ll teach you "The 5 Relationship Wrecking Communication Mistakes."  Once you can identify these you’ll be able to avoid them in your communication with your beloved.  It’s the first step in renewing your relationship and making sure that things don’t become worse.  It's also the first step toward changing the way you relate.

Remember, you can’t change your partner (you may have already tried – and you’ll probably agree that it just can't be done.  People are resistant to change when it’s initiated by somebody other than themselves – think about the last time you told somebody they ought to quit smoking.) 

And really, you don’t need to change yourself.  Deep down at the bottom of your upset is a desire to get your basic human needs met.  You need love, appreciation, support and intimacy with another human being.  You’re just wanting to get these needs met.  So you don’t want to change that about yourself (if it were even humanly possible). 

The second set of skills Paul and I will teach you through the Magic Relationship Method is the 4 Step Communication Formula.  This is a simple, four-step formula for creating communication (not just monitoring your communication as with the 5 Mistakes). 

It’s a little more difficult to learn because it requires creating communication in a new way – different from what you’re accustomed to doing.  But remember, what you’re doing right now might be driving a wedge between you and your beloved. 

We absolutely guarantee that this 4 Step Communication Formula will bring you closer together.  Using this, you’ll be able to connect lovingly with your partner even in the face of old wounds and baggage that usually drive you further apart.

We also guarantee that it will take some time to become a ‘natural’ at using this technique.  But if it would give you back the love, passion and understanding you used to have in your relationship, you'd be crazy not to give it a try.

Think of it this way:  where have you been focusing most of your attention lately?  On your work?  On your friends?  On your entertainment (like sports and television)?  What if you put the time, money and energy that you’ve been devoting to these other pursuits into re-making your relationship into the relationship of your dreams? 

It’s plain to see that just this shift in your attention, just signing up for our Romantic Weekend and Seminar in Estes Park will begin a huge shift in the tone of your relationship.

The last part of the Magic Relationship Method that Paul and I will teach you are the 7 Keys to a Magic Relationship.  These are 7 things you can do and say that will create the passion in your relationship you’ve been longing for.  They’re 7 things that will ‘bring home’ your understanding of the 5 Mistakes and the 4 Steps and make your relationship just that much more wonderful.
 

Here's How We'll Create the Magic...

The First Day: An Introduction to The Communication Principles

• Acquire the simple, powerful and effective 4 Step Formula.
• Learn how to avoid the 5 Relationship-Wrecking Communication Mistakes.
• Learn how to apply the 4 Step Formula at those times that you used to make the 5 Mistakes.
• Practice recognizing and applying these techniques through explanation, demonstration, guided practice and individual practice.
• Learn to ask for what you want in a way that others will want to give it to you.
• Talk about what's upsetting you in a way that actually creates more understanding and healing.

The Second Day: Putting the Principles to Work...

• Learn the distinctions between observations and evaluations, feelings and thoughts, needs and strategies, requests and demands.
• Learn to use the distinctions above to create connection and understanding between you and your loved ones.
• Play games designed to help you embed the 4 step method into your day to day operating system (don't worry -- it's not painful).
• Practice saying "NO” in role plays so that you can do it at home without hurting the people you love.
• And much, much, more…

Sign up Now and Receive the Following Bonuses...

Bonus #1:  Our 4 Coaching Calls following the seminar to help you integrate your new knowledge into your everyday life.  Normally $97.00, but free with the cost of the seminar.

Bonus #2:  A live recorded interview with Paul and Kristin teaching about your ROS (Relationship Operating System). Learn what you're operating system for relationships looks like... and what you do to change it if it is sabotaging your relationship.

Our Guarantee

If for any reason you decide this seminar didn't meet your needs, simply email Kristin (Kristin@MagicRelationship.com).  Please include the reasons why you are not satisfied (we'd like to learn from your experience) and we will refund your fee.
 

 
The Seminar Leaders

The workshop will be led by Paul Sterling and Kristin Denton, communication coaches, providing Compassionate Coaching with the intent of creating harmony in relationships through the method of Nonviolent Communication (created by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, www.cnvc.org).

Paul and Kristin have taught this life-changing, simple, 4-step method to a wide variety of people ranging from maximum security prisoners to priests. They've enjoyed teaching it to at-risk high-school students, the staff of Goodwill Denver, teachers, professors, Buddhist practitioners and innumerable individuals and couples.

The Seminar Costs

January 5 and 6, 2008 Per person $275.00 Per couple $525.00
 

Graduates' Costs

This pricing is for those who have previously attended a live seminar with Paul and Kristin -- in person. To register as a graduate, please email Kristin at Kristin@MagicRelationship.com . The green buttons above are for the full price only...

January 5 and 6, 2008 Per person $139.00 Per couple $265.00

Notes From Our Participants... 

Also, give us a call if you have any questions at all. You can reach us at (970) 586-7734 or send an email to Info@MagicRelationship.com .

Yours for Relationship Success!

Paul Sterling
MagicRelationship.com
970-586-7734

P.S. "Insanity is communicating the same way over and over again, expecting a different result." Arguments, intimacy problems, family feuds as well as problems on the job are most often communication problems, either with others or ourselves. But you can learn a new way to communicate that will bring you closer to others rather than driving you apart.  Discover the Magic Relationship Method and have be The Turning Point in your relationship. Save your place today.